Today I have an important lesson on how to keep your relationship strong after you get back together.
(Tip: This is also key in getting your ex back in the first place too.)
And it came to me the other day.
You may or may no know that Mika and I moved recently to a new neighborhood.
Well, a few days ago I had to go back to our old neighborhood to run some errands for the first time since we moved.
At first it was a little strange to be back there.
Going by all the places I used to hang out.
Seeing all the people I used to see.
It all felt familiar.
But I had to keep telling myself that this wasn’t where I lived anymore.
Even when I went by our old apartment building, it felt very strange to think that I couldn’t just walk right in and go home.
And here’s the lesson for you about your ex.
If you’re going to get back together with your ex and have a good relationship with them…
…Then you have to remember that you’re not just walking back into the SAME relationship.
Just like I had to remind myself that even though everything seemed familiar, everything was different.
If you just settle into the old patterns and habits you had before, you’re going to end up in trouble and find yourself going through a breakup again…
(Trust me, I’ve been there, and done that…)
So, how do you do that?
One of the great things about the Advanced Relational Skills we teach you inside the Ex Solution Program is this:
Not only will they help you establish a strong and powerful connection with your ex…
…They will ALSO help the two of you rediscover each other so that you don’t have to worry about falling back into old patterns.
After you put everything you learn in the Ex Solution Program, you’ll find that even though things may seem familiar…
…They will be immeasurably better.
If that sounds like something you’d like, the Ex Solution Program might be a good fit for you.