If you’re going through a break up, I know that it can be one of the most challenging things to suffer through–trust me, I’ve been there myself. But what makes it even worse is when your ex doesn’t even seem to care, they ignore you, and they just moved on as if nothing happened. It leaves you wondering how to make your ex miss you like crazy.
I mean, at least if they missed you, you would at least know that you meant something to them, rather than just bashing your head against a cold and uncaring wall. You’re left trying to make sense of the whole situation, while they just happily move on with their life. It really isn’t fair, is it?
Well, here are a few things you can can do to make your ex miss you like crazy.
First, let’s look at what really tends to irk you about your ex. You got it! It’s how they seem to have just bounced back so quickly. Whether they are “living the good life,” dating someone new, or just don’t seem to give you the time of day anymore, it can all really add up and get under your skin.
You see, what you want is to know that you were important to them. That you mattered, right? And if you start to pull back a little bit, they will probably start to feel the same way.
I know that it can be a little scary to think of pulling away. I mean, if your ex is already barely giving you any notice at all, won’t pulling away just be like surrendering any last tether of connection to them at all?
Not quite. It’s going to seem like the most difficult thing you’ve ever done, but if you can push through and get yourself to keep your distance, it will absolutely transform the way your ex sees you and get them to miss you more than you can imagine.
So the first thing is to stop contacting them for about a month or so (this is called the No Contact Rule, and it works like nothing else out there!).
During this month, you need to pick up the pieces of your life and get over him fast–or at least appear to move on.
Does this sound familiar? This is probably exactly what your ex is doing right now, right?
Well, turn the tables on them and give them a taste of their own medicine. Get out of the house, make some new friends, and do things with your life. As long as you’re sulking at home and feeling miserable, your ex will know that they can always come back to you.
But if you’re out doing things and moving on with your life, then they’ll have to face their own fears that they might lose you. I know it’s hard for some people to understand this. I mean, didn’t your ex break up with you?
Why would they be afraid of losing you? Well, they’re branching out and trying something new themselves with their life. It’s only natural to be afraid of the unknown. So they want to keep you as their “safe bet” in case things don’t work out.
When you remove this option for them, they suddenly have to make a choice about what is more important to them. Suddenly, they’ll start to romanticize all to happy times together with you and they’ll begin to miss you like crazy
So that’s how to get your ex to miss you. Basically, you just have to take their tactics to make you miss them, and use them against them. Maybe a little sneaky, but quite effective. Also, check out the signs your ex wants you back to see if this is working.