Is finding the best way to apologize to your girlfriend a lot harder than you thought? Are you tired of the silent treatment or the constant shouting matches you guys have? Is it something that you did wrong?Regardless of the reason why she is mad at you, you need to apologize to her if you want peace in your relationship. Your apology can break or make your relationship with your girlfriend. Here are the steps on how to apologize.

Step 1: Admit that you are wrong (if you are at fault). I know sometimes it can be difficult to admit that you are wrong. The first step to making amends is just admit what you did. Take responsibility for your actions and stop making excuses.  Admit that you made a mistake and tell her you are not going to do it again. Admitting you are wrong is the first best way to apologize to your girlfriend.

Step 2: Accept her reaction and prepare for what ever consequences. Did you expect her to forgive and forget once you apologized? Depending on your girlfriend and what you did, it might take her some time to cool off. She will appreciate that you manned up an apologized for whatever you did. Being prepared for whatever happens next is a good way to show her that you are truly sorry and take total responsibility of you actions. This a good step in order for you  apologize to your girlfriend.

Step 3: Take time to cool off from each other. Sometimes in a heated argument, people say things they’ll regret later. To avoid this, you guys should use this time to cool off and think things through.  Your energy level is up when you are angry and you might do or say something you might regret so it is best that you have some time apart. Take a walk first to cool things off between the two of you. It will benefit both parties if they are thinking rationally.

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